It won't let me join...

Yesterday when I got onto byond, pbm was greyed out like the server was down, and I was like "oh I'll just wait to see what happens". but then I was talking to my friend Moon who also plays, and she said it was up and she was playing it right then... I don't think I'm banned, so... maybe somebody can help me...

Could have been a number of things. It's possible that you couldn't reach the server from your hub, but that would indicate that you were trying to connect to the game from your byond pager, instead of the hub. If the game wasn't showing up on the hub, then usually the game does an internal crash with the host, and only lets a few people in. That's rare. Or could have been a problem with your pager in general. If you still can't log on tonight, maybe an admin can check the logs to see if you're banned, which I doubt. You're definitely not server banned, so. . . check into that.